Or rather, so far in my game, she hasn't...

I have done Xzars quest but nobody has come up to her after - I know it happens as she was approached in an earlier game of mine ( I am trying not to spoil anything for anybody here... so I am deliberately being vague, but anyone who has done this will know what I mean)

Is it because I didn't hang around in the docks - or is there no time limit?

Also I think I must have upset her, because she hasn't said anything romantic to me for absolutely ages (after my post about romancing I thought what the hell, act like I would think a bloke would act!!)

Have I blown it on both accounts?

I would hate to have to start again because I am one of those gals who has to do every quest I possibly can, and every sub quest, sub plot etc - I suspect there are a lot of us out there.

Thanks

Z

Well if you are romancing she gets summoned after completing both the bandit quest and Xzar's quest.That is at LT 27 I think

Try to go to sleep somewhere out in the general coutryside.

For example at the druid grove or outside the Dearnisse hold or the umar hills.

Z,
I think I'm in the same spot as you. I started romancing Jaheira and all interaction with her stopped the moment I told Aerie I wasn't interested in Aerie. (I went from 2 to zero in seconds flat).
I did have a recent interesting encounter where some bandits took Jaheira hostage whilst we were resting after completing a quest. My character took a hit for Jaheira and she still won't talk to me.
Must be my 10 charisma. (human kensai/mage).