I know that Anomen is annoying enough but now he has dissappeared because his father and sister are dead! I convinced him o tto seek revenge on his own and then he passed his test, and now he went of to do who knows what with a bunch of my quest items in his inventory!! Anyone help?

SPOILER?
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I think what you have to do is travel to the bridge district and confront Saerk at his estate(check the map for it's location). Anomen should be there and you can talk him out of trouble. Make sure you save before entering though as not all dialog options lead to Anomen not killing Saerk.