[Ilander]

Thankfully I will be going to a more diverse Univeristy pretty soon! As for why I'm aking, Hierophant, I'm just genuinely sick of being expected to be the one who is in charge of everything---I have to be in charge of things in my relationship that make much more sense being shared responsibilities, and ultimately, it's my fault if I can't visit every day, regardless car trouble...

I suppose it's just girlfriend trouble behind all of this, but damnit, I don't want to set boundaries...not on myself, and not on her....

I'm sorry to muck it all up...I just wanted to try to veil my reasons as much as possible in an educated debate...