Actually I am more familiar with the saying of, "Make a fire for man, and he is warm for a day. Set a man on fire, and he is warm for the rest of his life."
Jesting aside, if you
reeeeally feel the need to critisise somebody, at least put a spin on it so as to indicate that you are not projecting hostility onto him/her.
Sarcasm is a wonderful tool,
and best used in conjunction with tact and dry wit. Ergo, try not to be so aggressive. [img]smile.gif[/img]