Moridin: I'm so glad your weekend went well. I agree with those who said it's a good idea to build some happy 'together' memories now.
You have received a lot of good advice here, so I'm not going to add to it. I do wish you luck, and support, and another listening ear. Whatever you decide, you'll know that you are doing everything you can to make it work. More power to you!!
(I wish there was a 'thumbs up' smiley!)
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Having abandoned my search for truth, I am now looking for a good Fantasy.