Oh and forgive me, im not the best reasoner, or thinker, and i have a nasty tendancy to just get people annoyed during conversations, and i think this is because as you say i think my view or experience is the only one.
In my youth i was pretty much alone, my only friend through school lived a distance away, and my parents were content to leave me on my own, so i very quickly learned to operate on my own without anyone else. Thi had the disadvantage of making me very alinated towards other people. and incapable of seeing their sides of things or views. This i regret deeply, but is hard to reform from despite my many years of trying.
I am hated by a great number of people, sometimes by my apperance, my personality or just "me" in genaral so i also learned to screen myself from their thoughts, and ignore them, this in turn also lead t the above condition.
What im saying Yorick is that im trying, but please bear with me in things like this, cause i aint to skilled in it!
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Jerome, Arch Nemisis of the OHF