I wouldn't do the singles thing again, not for love nor money!
However, jerks are jerks, regardless of gender. You see plenty of female-bashing bumper stickers, more so than male-bashing ones. The thing that saddens me is that female liberation was supposed to "liberate" females to be their true selves, not bring them down to the lowest common denominator with that of their worst oppressors...
or maybe that's just the most vocal ones. Me, I always seek for the quiet ones...the ones with no axe to grind and who just want to live a good life and give and receive love.
They ARE out there. You just have to turn down the volume on the idiots.