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Old 08-27-2001, 03:26 PM   #3
Sazerac
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Join Date: January 7, 2001
Location: Monroe, LA
Age: 62
Posts: 7,387
Quote:
Originally posted by Moridin:
I have a very difficult moral problem

My problem is this: Should I tell her current bf (whom I have met a couple of times, and think is a pretty good guy), if she starts seeing someone else even if it will most certainly cost me my freindship with her?
I feel like deep down I should tell him b/c he does not deserve to be hurt, but on the other hand should I just keep out of it, as it is not really my business?
And do I really want to be friends with someone that would do this to another person?

1) Nope...taking a page from "Dear Abby" here, MYOB. He'll find out soon enough, or he already knows. It's worse if someone thinks it's public knowledge...that's the ultimate shame of the "cuckold."

2) I would seriously re-evaluate my friendship with this other person. Although I can't judge from what you've relayed here, it looks like she's stringing this poor fellow along for all she can get out of him. It's up to you, but I wouldn't trust her further than I could toss an elephant.

Cheers,


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