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Originally posted by J.J.:
Great answer, F, that is exactly what he should do. She is a scuzbag if she is hitting on her boyfriends mate behind his back - I wonder how many other of his "friends" have had this prob with her and just took the bait? tell her to give up, you don't do the nasty with dirtballs, no matter how pretty they may be on the OUTSIDE. then DO TELL YOUR FRIEND!! trust me, he has an idea of what she is doing, he may be afraid to confront it. better yet, set up the video camera in an unobtrusive place, and then have this conversation with her, or just let her make her moves again. then, after you tell your friend, show the video. even better, just show him the video. BUT TELL HIM! it may cause some friction, but if he is a true mate, it will not be as much as his eventual relief that he had a friend good enough to steer him straight on miss hot to trot with his buddies. Been there, and video or photo proof keeps you from being the enemy - she will try to turn him against you once you make it clear she has no chance with you - remember about the woman scorned!
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grrrr.... there is no need for that... she might be guilty on this, but it is not his place to tear her face down
by the way, put a recorder in your pocket when talk to her. after you and her said everything, tell her your conversation is recorded. (you don't really need to record it,
just tell her it is), then she will not dare trying to turn your mate against you. but do find a chane to tell your mate everything.