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250 · 12-01-2001, 06:01 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Jorath Calar:
Well here is what happened.
She called me about 2 hours before we were going to meet and said she couldn't make it tonight, because she had a very hard day at work and was very tired, and asked if it was okey if we did this later. I said of course I'd love to but I got the feeling she didn't really mean that.
Well it could have gone worse I guess... (she could have showed up and shot me [img]smile.gif[/img] ).
I just spent the night with some friends at a pub, went home early and ended up at my sisters place watching old Friends episodes, alone on her couch.
I feel kinda pathetic... I mean how low can you go? [img]smile.gif[/img]

does she actually **know** you? It seems she is not giving you any chance. I tell you what, do the most loving things you can think of. BUT, **do not** be sticky. it is kinda like she is your favorite sister. you need to be very understanding and supportive, and **at least appear to be** sacrificing. but dont do too much, do it in a light hearted way that prints a message "I do this without asking for anything in return" and DONT do it with a martyr's face

got my meaning?

good luck

P.S. I know it doesnt feel good, but what other choices do you have?

12-01-2001, 06:01 AM	#46
250 Horus - Egyptian Sky God Join Date: March 4, 2001 Location: either CA or MO Age: 43 Posts: 2,674	quote: Originally posted by Jorath Calar: Well here is what happened. She called me about 2 hours before we were going to meet and said she couldn't make it tonight, because she had a very hard day at work and was very tired, and asked if it was okey if we did this later. I said of course I'd love to but I got the feeling she didn't really mean that. Well it could have gone worse I guess... (she could have showed up and shot me [img]smile.gif[/img] ). I just spent the night with some friends at a pub, went home early and ended up at my sisters place watching old Friends episodes, alone on her couch. I feel kinda pathetic... I mean how low can you go? [img]smile.gif[/img] does she actually know you? It seems she is not giving you any chance. I tell you what, do the most loving things you can think of. BUT, do not be sticky. it is kinda like she is your favorite sister. you need to be very understanding and supportive, and at least appear to be sacrificing. but dont do too much, do it in a light hearted way that prints a message "I do this without asking for anything in return" and DONT do it with a martyr's face got my meaning? good luck P.S. I know it doesnt feel good, but what other choices do you have?