Thanks everyone once again for the responses. I've been really upset and angry about this little episode and I've had to try really hard not to say something stupid to the wrong person.
For those of you who asked, Rachel is not my subordinate, nor do I have any.
The fabulous news (finally some good news) is that Rachel rang me from her car after leaving work to tell me that she certainly wasn't going to let this effect our friendship. We're just going to have to keep it outside of the building, as sad as that seems.
So that's one thing that I don't need to worry about. Unfortunately, something inside me so desperately wants to show our HR people how wrong they all are. I even wrote a long email today that I was ready to send, but then I deleted it just before sending it. I think I'm just going to have to take it on the chin and move on. I really don't want to cause any more friction.
I just hate feeling like my job is on the line because of other people's lies and stupidity.
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