[Larry_OHF]

Stormy, you are not wrong to feel the way you do, and you deserve the best, because you are a mother. In fact, your cute little tyke there looks a bit like my MaryBeth, so I have to take your side on the whole thing because of that!

I find that marriage counseling is okay,,,I myself want to be a counselor, but not yet...but the most important thing is open communication between the two. One cannot just open one's mouth and let whatever come flying out. Communication is a skill and can be perfected. Certain words can have the same meaning, but one may weigh more than another, so it is important to know which one to use in what circumstance. I want get into all that now.
I only want to wish you the best in finding a solution to this matter. If your husbad is only there because of the kids...then at least he is decent and loving enough to do that...He may hae some hidden power there that you have not yet seen! Try finding it.