well all back, here is what happened
We got there late, had spagetti for lunch, my uncel took alot of pics of the kids, the baby(who hates strangers) decided to run up to him with her arms open wide, and loved all over hi
then we went outside to smoke, my brotherand husband started playing a game of football toss, and one wound up hitting me square in the back of the head....funny now but hurt like an SOB, then my mom and I played goalie catch,lol and chased the kids all over the yard, we finally left at 6 pm, so i am very tired