Serious problem. Need your help.

ZFR · 06-19-2006, 05:28 PM

My girlfriend and I have been going steady for some 3 years. Now few weeks ago our relationship started falling apart.

It started with few small things initially, which just kept growing. I started suspecting she was cheating on me. For example she would sometimes answer her phone in my presence and then get away from me so I don't hear the conversation. Or she would tell the caller she'd call him back. Often when I ask her to go out, she would say she's busy or that she's meeting some of her friends. She's been seeing her friends quite a lot lately, I asked her once which of our common friends she was spending so much time with and she just said it's some new friends whom I don't know.
I once picked her mobile phone just to see what time it was and she got in a rage. She shouted how dare I pick her private phone and so on.. I mean I just barely picked it up for a sec.

Now lately it started getting even worse. Before she used to spend literally every evening (unless we go out) at my place. Now its barely twice a week. And when she does visit me she looks like she's doing an unpleasant duty. The atmosphere is tense the conversation is forced. And now when she leaves she doesn't want me to walk her to the bus stop. She says she doesn't go by bus but takes a taxi because she feels safer that way. She refuses me to drive her home. And she doesn't want to call for a taxi from home but says she prefers to walk a little and catch a taxi as one comes along. And she refuses me to accompany her.

Now, today as she left I decided to follow her and see where she'd go. I went out after her and hid behind my car parked outside. And as I looked I saw this huuuuuge scratch across the left front door. I mean really big. Crap! And I just had a new paint job done few days ago. What to do now? If anyone has an advice on how to remove this scratch please help me because I'm at my wits end.

johnny · 06-19-2006, 05:57 PM

[img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img]

Ivelliis · 06-19-2006, 06:09 PM

Haha! Good one!

robertthebard · 06-19-2006, 07:17 PM

Uh oh, better get Maaco... [img]graemlins/heee.gif[/img]
Edit to fix smiley...

[ 06-19-2006, 07:18 PM: Message edited by: robertthebard ]

Kynaeus · 06-19-2006, 09:06 PM

Hahaha, dude, you are awesome.

Iron Greasel · 06-20-2006, 03:37 AM

As Johnny said, [img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img]

Madman-Rogovich · 06-20-2006, 08:53 AM

[img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img] I was getting all ready to tell you to ditch the skank , a world class jape [img]smile.gif[/img]

Cloudbringer · 06-20-2006, 09:04 AM

[img]tongue.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/biglaugh.gif[/img] Baaaaaaaaaaaaad bad bad ZFR! [img]graemlins/laugh2.gif[/img] Had me going for a few minutes! Was about to suggest you move on and let her go.... LOL!

Stratos · 06-20-2006, 10:35 AM

Post of The Week, ZFR. [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img]

06-19-2006, 05:28 PM	#1
ZFR Legion Symbol Join Date: February 14, 2002 Location: Ireland Age: 41 Posts: 7,371	My girlfriend and I have been going steady for some 3 years. Now few weeks ago our relationship started falling apart. It started with few small things initially, which just kept growing. I started suspecting she was cheating on me. For example she would sometimes answer her phone in my presence and then get away from me so I don't hear the conversation. Or she would tell the caller she'd call him back. Often when I ask her to go out, she would say she's busy or that she's meeting some of her friends. She's been seeing her friends quite a lot lately, I asked her once which of our common friends she was spending so much time with and she just said it's some new friends whom I don't know. I once picked her mobile phone just to see what time it was and she got in a rage. She shouted how dare I pick her private phone and so on.. I mean I just barely picked it up for a sec. Now lately it started getting even worse. Before she used to spend literally every evening (unless we go out) at my place. Now its barely twice a week. And when she does visit me she looks like she's doing an unpleasant duty. The atmosphere is tense the conversation is forced. And now when she leaves she doesn't want me to walk her to the bus stop. She says she doesn't go by bus but takes a taxi because she feels safer that way. She refuses me to drive her home. And she doesn't want to call for a taxi from home but says she prefers to walk a little and catch a taxi as one comes along. And she refuses me to accompany her. Now, today as she left I decided to follow her and see where she'd go. I went out after her and hid behind my car parked outside. And as I looked I saw this huuuuuge scratch across the left front door. I mean really big. Crap! And I just had a new paint job done few days ago. What to do now? If anyone has an advice on how to remove this scratch please help me because I'm at my wits end. __________________ ZFR

06-19-2006, 05:57 PM	#2
johnny 40th Level Warrior Join Date: April 15, 2002 Location: Utrecht The Netherlands Age: 59 Posts: 16,981	[img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img] __________________

06-19-2006, 06:09 PM	#3
Ivelliis Gold Dragon Join Date: August 6, 2004 Location: North East England Age: 35 Posts: 2,561	Haha! Good one! __________________

06-19-2006, 07:17 PM	#4
robertthebard Xanathar Thieves Guild Join Date: March 17, 2001 Location: Wichita, KS USA Age: 62 Posts: 4,537	Uh oh, better get Maaco... [img]graemlins/heee.gif[/img] Edit to fix smiley... [ 06-19-2006, 07:18 PM: Message edited by: robertthebard ] __________________ To those we have lost; May your spirits fly free. Interesting read, one of my blogs.

06-20-2006, 08:53 AM	#7
Madman-Rogovich Lord Soth Join Date: October 23, 2001 Location: Edinburgh Age: 40 Posts: 1,918	[img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img] I was getting all ready to tell you to ditch the skank , a world class jape [img]smile.gif[/img] __________________ One room, one axe, one outcome.

06-19-2006, 09:06 PM	#5
Kynaeus Drow Warrior Join Date: March 15, 2005 Location: Canada Age: 35 Posts: 289	Hahaha, dude, you are awesome.

06-20-2006, 03:37 AM	#6
Iron Greasel Fzoul Chembryl Join Date: July 13, 2004 Location: Finland Age: 36 Posts: 1,701	As Johnny said, [img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img]

06-20-2006, 09:04 AM	#8
Cloudbringer Ironworks Moderator Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: Upstate NY USA Posts: 19,737	[img]tongue.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/biglaugh.gif[/img] Baaaaaaaaaaaaad bad bad ZFR! [img]graemlins/laugh2.gif[/img] Had me going for a few minutes! Was about to suggest you move on and let her go.... LOL! __________________ "Don't take life for granted." Animal (may he rest in peace)

06-20-2006, 10:35 AM	#9
Stratos Vampire Join Date: January 29, 2003 Location: Sweden Age: 44 Posts: 3,888	Post of The Week, ZFR. [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img] __________________ Nothing is impossible, it's just a matter of probability.

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